How to actually implement and achieve this transfer has been a years-long adventure. In the interim, as the reader of my posts well knows, I have in important ways remained in the control of my ego-mind. I have felt like a bifurcated person: on the one hand, few things pushed my buttons anymore and I was largely at piece; on the other hand, I continued to act on fears that were at the core of my ego-mind, bringing myself and those around me suffering.
What finally opened up a new path for me to this end was when I realized I needed to invite god into my subconscious, ask him to be my subconscious, filling me with abundance and light, faith and strength, so that I radiated light and was a light to myself and those around me, creating a forcefield that my ego-mind, mara, and the devil could not penetrate. I had to choose to be with god, with the child of the universe within me.
But I found that asking god to bring me the wisdom I needed to live my life well and not cause myself and others suffering was not sufficient. As with other points in my journey, I learned that global statements or prayers did not work; I had to be very specific about what weakness I was addressing.
And so I found I needed to actively seek buddha's/god's/the universe's guidance every day throughout the day. When something arose that I would have acted upon in a habitual way, which would have caused suffering, I needed to ask instead for god's guidance on how to handle this new information, this situation.
That was how I have finally implemented turning my will and my life over to the care of god, how I implemented "your will, not my ego-mind's." I must be constantly vigilant and not stray from my intent, thus keeping my mind on a higher plane, in a place where the ego-mind has no foothold.